"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Today I am...

sigma335

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Going outside to talk to women. Will report back. Some background I have 5 or so fvckbuddies but their all from pof/okc, well one isnt but she's all the way in LA right now. My pof acct got deleted a yesterday for spamming I guess. I've always had AA but its gotten less recently but I always find myself coming up with an excuse not to approach women when I'm out that I find attractive. So today the plan is to shower, then leave my place and get on the train. First woman who I find attractive I will initiate a convo. I will be on my way to a neighborhood fest where there will be a couple of stages with bands and food vendors. Should be a lot of people, I know my AA will kick in there, plan to have 1-2 beers to help relax me. Will report back on my rejections/success. Will try to keep a idgaf mindframe because I already have pvssy that I can smash.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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****ing talked to one girl I really wasn't attracted to. Getting buzzed and am startling to hit up ****buddies. All the women here seem to be 30+ I like em you younger(now that feels like an excuse as well). Maybe I just don't like being social.
 

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Some 37 yo European whose number I got off Pof last week end up meeting me up there after I was there for a couple hours. Ended up taking her back to my place after hanging out there and hanging out at a bar afterwards, smashed. Tho I'm glad I had sex not happy that besides talking to a couple of other ladies at the festival I let my AA get the best of me. I feel that if one of my friends was with me, instead of being solo, I would've opened more sets.
 
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