Hello all! I have been a frequent lurker on the boards. I have gotten a lot of good insight from many of you. I will try to keep this as short as I can.
I met this chick about 6 months ago. I asked her out and she accepted but threw in the "I'm not interested in anything serious right now" line. I ended up not following through with a dinner date. That line led me to believe low interest.
I ended up going no contact for a few weeks after that. One night out of the blue she hit me on text and wanted me to meet her at a bar with her friends. I was actually with another plate when she texted. I ended up meeting her later that night. I get to the bar and we had a nice conversation. She got up to do something and said she would be right back.
She was gone for 20 min and I got up and left. She started texting asking where I was. Anyway I wasn't going to sit there and wait.
We did end up with one dinner date a few months later and it went well. It didn't actually feel like a date though. Out text messaging isn't very good. At times she seems interested and other times she doesn't. I have offered to meet her a few times and it never panned out.
One day she started texting me about how she wanted to go on vacation. I got the feeling she was about to invite me. I steered clear of it. A week later she just came out with it. She invited me to take a tropical vacation for 7 days.
I am a little perplexed with the invitation. If she wanted to hang out with me why not go on a date? All the sudden she wants to go on vacation with me? She said we can split the costs 50/50. She was all stoked about it. I was entertaining the idea with her. She was texting everyday for a few days asking about it.
What is the angle here?
I met this chick about 6 months ago. I asked her out and she accepted but threw in the "I'm not interested in anything serious right now" line. I ended up not following through with a dinner date. That line led me to believe low interest.
I ended up going no contact for a few weeks after that. One night out of the blue she hit me on text and wanted me to meet her at a bar with her friends. I was actually with another plate when she texted. I ended up meeting her later that night. I get to the bar and we had a nice conversation. She got up to do something and said she would be right back.
She was gone for 20 min and I got up and left. She started texting asking where I was. Anyway I wasn't going to sit there and wait.
We did end up with one dinner date a few months later and it went well. It didn't actually feel like a date though. Out text messaging isn't very good. At times she seems interested and other times she doesn't. I have offered to meet her a few times and it never panned out.
One day she started texting me about how she wanted to go on vacation. I got the feeling she was about to invite me. I steered clear of it. A week later she just came out with it. She invited me to take a tropical vacation for 7 days.
I am a little perplexed with the invitation. If she wanted to hang out with me why not go on a date? All the sudden she wants to go on vacation with me? She said we can split the costs 50/50. She was all stoked about it. I was entertaining the idea with her. She was texting everyday for a few days asking about it.
What is the angle here?
