This girl ive been fooling around with is ready for me to take her v card, but this girl is so tight, tonight i blame there not being enough time and trying to rush sex in the back of car, but i couldn't manage to get it in. In the past when i fingered her one was enough and two was just ripping her apart, how should i go about it next time? Loosen her up with my fingers more before or what? Any tips to pass on? All advice is appercaited, thanks ahead of time.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
to tight..
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Teflon_Mcgee
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Anytime a chick is to tight chances are it vaginismis.
Take your time and LOTS of foreplay.
The key is to get her to relax completely.
Get some oil and give her a nice long sexy massage with some chill music. Tease her and kiss her.
Get her to relax and she'll loosen up.
Take your time and LOTS of foreplay.
The key is to get her to relax completely.
Get some oil and give her a nice long sexy massage with some chill music. Tease her and kiss her.
Get her to relax and she'll loosen up.
realsmoothie
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How wet is this girl? Just about any girl can take at least SOME of any penis, given that she's wet enough.
If she's not:
a) you need to "prime" her more (i.e. foreplay, and make SURE she feels comfortable... it is her first time after all)
b) get some lube. no joke, the stuff works.
If she's not:
a) you need to "prime" her more (i.e. foreplay, and make SURE she feels comfortable... it is her first time after all)
b) get some lube. no joke, the stuff works.
the lube thing totaly works, the girl im with at the mo wasnt a virgin she had 4 sexual partners before me but she is really tight, apparently im the biggest shes had, which made my head grow!!! lol. but we have to use lube to have sex, or theres no way for either of us to enjoy it, and yes this is after i make her come atleast 3 times before sex!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
Go somewhere where you know you can be alone and undisturbed for a couple of hours. Do lots of foreplay and use lots of lube. And for God's sake, don't just shove it in.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
lmao
If shes a virgin, just bustin her up is a surefire way to ruin the whole thing.
If shes a virgin, just bustin her up is a surefire way to ruin the whole thing.
MissionX
Don Juan
Ok, If you're big, don't ever ram it in, you can rip something, and will cause her not to enjoy sex, a close friend of mine had that happen to her, she still enjoys sex, but afterwards she has pain. My girl is always tight, I'm always having to prime, I normally start with one finger and work my way up to three, otherwise I will never fit, And it still takes some time for me to fit. You could always go down on her, get her off, get her used to one finger, then two, then three, Sex shouldn't be rushed in your case, it will take some time, and tell her it's going to hurt..... But don't let that discourage her, let her know the first few minutes will hurt, then she will enjoy it a lot more.
If that doesn't work, You may want to use some lube, there are many different kinds, But K-Y happens to be a favourite of mine, and it also enhances the pleasure for both you and your girl, When applying the lube, make sure you Lube her AND yourself for the best results.
Have fun
Payne
If that doesn't work, You may want to use some lube, there are many different kinds, But K-Y happens to be a favourite of mine, and it also enhances the pleasure for both you and your girl, When applying the lube, make sure you Lube her AND yourself for the best results.
Have fun
Payne
wow thanks for all the advice i sorta forgot about the post heh heh. but yea much thanks to all. Its weird lately she won't let me finger her and i know shes not on the rag because she was down to screw, so im sorta lost, before when we first were hooking up id have her all nice and primed but at the time was not planning on putting anything else of mine in there, now that shes down she won't let me touch it directly ive fingered her through her short shorts underwear all that and i can get still get her off but its not as good as it was before, so yea im not sure where to go from here any and all advice is apperciated and im gonna have to invest in some lube it looks like.
p.s. i didn't just try to ram it in
that night there was like atleast 3 hours of forplay
p.s. i didn't just try to ram it in
that night there was like atleast 3 hours of forplay"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.