This girl ive been fooling around with is ready for me to take her v card, but this girl is so tight, tonight i blame there not being enough time and trying to rush sex in the back of car, but i couldn't manage to get it in. In the past when i fingered her one was enough and two was just ripping her apart, how should i go about it next time? Loosen her up with my fingers more before or what? Any tips to pass on? All advice is appercaited, thanks ahead of time.
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She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Teflon_Mcgee
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Anytime a chick is to tight chances are it vaginismis.
Take your time and LOTS of foreplay.
The key is to get her to relax completely.
Get some oil and give her a nice long sexy massage with some chill music. Tease her and kiss her.
Get her to relax and she'll loosen up.
Take your time and LOTS of foreplay.
The key is to get her to relax completely.
Get some oil and give her a nice long sexy massage with some chill music. Tease her and kiss her.
Get her to relax and she'll loosen up.
realsmoothie
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How wet is this girl? Just about any girl can take at least SOME of any penis, given that she's wet enough.
If she's not:
a) you need to "prime" her more (i.e. foreplay, and make SURE she feels comfortable... it is her first time after all)
b) get some lube. no joke, the stuff works.
If she's not:
a) you need to "prime" her more (i.e. foreplay, and make SURE she feels comfortable... it is her first time after all)
b) get some lube. no joke, the stuff works.
the lube thing totaly works, the girl im with at the mo wasnt a virgin she had 4 sexual partners before me but she is really tight, apparently im the biggest shes had, which made my head grow!!! lol. but we have to use lube to have sex, or theres no way for either of us to enjoy it, and yes this is after i make her come atleast 3 times before sex!
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girl_in_a_boy_forum
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Go somewhere where you know you can be alone and undisturbed for a couple of hours. Do lots of foreplay and use lots of lube. And for God's sake, don't just shove it in.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
lmao
If shes a virgin, just bustin her up is a surefire way to ruin the whole thing.
If shes a virgin, just bustin her up is a surefire way to ruin the whole thing.
MissionX
Don Juan
Ok, If you're big, don't ever ram it in, you can rip something, and will cause her not to enjoy sex, a close friend of mine had that happen to her, she still enjoys sex, but afterwards she has pain. My girl is always tight, I'm always having to prime, I normally start with one finger and work my way up to three, otherwise I will never fit, And it still takes some time for me to fit. You could always go down on her, get her off, get her used to one finger, then two, then three, Sex shouldn't be rushed in your case, it will take some time, and tell her it's going to hurt..... But don't let that discourage her, let her know the first few minutes will hurt, then she will enjoy it a lot more.
If that doesn't work, You may want to use some lube, there are many different kinds, But K-Y happens to be a favourite of mine, and it also enhances the pleasure for both you and your girl, When applying the lube, make sure you Lube her AND yourself for the best results.
Have fun
Payne
If that doesn't work, You may want to use some lube, there are many different kinds, But K-Y happens to be a favourite of mine, and it also enhances the pleasure for both you and your girl, When applying the lube, make sure you Lube her AND yourself for the best results.
Have fun
Payne
wow thanks for all the advice i sorta forgot about the post heh heh. but yea much thanks to all. Its weird lately she won't let me finger her and i know shes not on the rag because she was down to screw, so im sorta lost, before when we first were hooking up id have her all nice and primed but at the time was not planning on putting anything else of mine in there, now that shes down she won't let me touch it directly ive fingered her through her short shorts underwear all that and i can get still get her off but its not as good as it was before, so yea im not sure where to go from here any and all advice is apperciated and im gonna have to invest in some lube it looks like.
p.s. i didn't just try to ram it in
that night there was like atleast 3 hours of forplay
p.s. i didn't just try to ram it in
that night there was like atleast 3 hours of forplay"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
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