"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To those depressed

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Go exercise......It may seem like a bit of an oversimplification, (and it is always hard to motivate yourself when you feel down) but it really does help. The rush of endorphins gives you an altered perspective on your situation even though it's temporary, it makes you feel a little more constructive which can help you actively change some of the things that are causing you problems.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes it is old news.....So old in fact that it's surprising how under valued it is. I've gone through times of depression and never actively tried it, and when I finely did it made a considerable difference.
 

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It's true.

Working out should be a VITAL part of becoming a "DJ"

The benefits are endless.

-Makes you feel great.
-Improves your body
-Improves your confidence which then improves every area of your life
-Gets you healthier
-More in tune with your body and ACTIONS rather than stuck in your head every day

There just are too many lazy mofos who wont give it a shot.
 

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I like this advice, thanks for the pick up. I'm feeling a bit down, no love life on the horizon. But I'm going to get my body in to shape!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jaggs said:
There just are too many lazy mofos who wont give it a shot.
Probably less to do with laziness and more to do with the fact that it takes months of hard to work to see any results.

Chalk it up to the culture of instant gratification.
 

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#41 said:
Probably less to do with laziness and more to do with the fact that it takes months of hard to work to see any results.

Chalk it up to the culture of instant gratification.
I see your point, but I'm am not focusing so much on how you look and how fit you are after several months.... Sometimes just the feeling you get fallowing a good workout can make all the difference in getting you out of your unmotivated rut.
 

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Um, if you're depressed, you need to discover your interests and build on them. Go out there and make money. Learn to make more after. You are your own limit.

Enjoy..
 
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