"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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To those depressed

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Go exercise......It may seem like a bit of an oversimplification, (and it is always hard to motivate yourself when you feel down) but it really does help. The rush of endorphins gives you an altered perspective on your situation even though it's temporary, it makes you feel a little more constructive which can help you actively change some of the things that are causing you problems.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes it is old news.....So old in fact that it's surprising how under valued it is. I've gone through times of depression and never actively tried it, and when I finely did it made a considerable difference.
 

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It's true.

Working out should be a VITAL part of becoming a "DJ"

The benefits are endless.

-Makes you feel great.
-Improves your body
-Improves your confidence which then improves every area of your life
-Gets you healthier
-More in tune with your body and ACTIONS rather than stuck in your head every day

There just are too many lazy mofos who wont give it a shot.
 

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I like this advice, thanks for the pick up. I'm feeling a bit down, no love life on the horizon. But I'm going to get my body in to shape!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jaggs said:
There just are too many lazy mofos who wont give it a shot.
Probably less to do with laziness and more to do with the fact that it takes months of hard to work to see any results.

Chalk it up to the culture of instant gratification.
 

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#41 said:
Probably less to do with laziness and more to do with the fact that it takes months of hard to work to see any results.

Chalk it up to the culture of instant gratification.
I see your point, but I'm am not focusing so much on how you look and how fit you are after several months.... Sometimes just the feeling you get fallowing a good workout can make all the difference in getting you out of your unmotivated rut.
 

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Um, if you're depressed, you need to discover your interests and build on them. Go out there and make money. Learn to make more after. You are your own limit.

Enjoy..
 
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