"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To the true DJ's here, help me out a little

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snowdog

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Normally i don't start threads like this; i'm finding things out on my own by trying, failing, and trying again. This time it's a little different though.

My journal is here.

If you start from the start of the 3rd page you can see where I am at this moment in terms of progress.

There is a girl at my work. I posted about her in these posts (but really, you really should read from page 3 so you'll get a much better idea):
#62
#45
#65
#70


According to the material i read and the stuff i read on here, i'm in a pretty sweet position. But i know from experience that such a position doesn't last long. So, what should i do? I asked her out, and she didn't have time and a very good reason for it. Infact i had a mini-exchange with her in the hallways where she told me she'll get the key to her new house tomorrow (read my sh*t if you wanna know what i'm talking about). ANYWAY, i would like some tips from the more experienced DJ's here.

I'm walking into her every now and then, max 2 times a day, and sometimes i don't even see her. Really, please gimme some advice on how to handle this cause i like this one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gangster Of Love

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Your links are so confusing. I read this post of yours, yet it has no info as to what and who are you dealing with.

On the links, all it has are chicks you met, yet you don't mention which one you are talking about, or any follow up, etc.

If you want help, you have to make it easy for the guys here to want to help you. Don't have us to all the work, even if we want to do all the work, there just insn't even enough info to make any sense of this. I am speaking for myself, at least.

Help me help you!!!
 
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NoMoreTapDancing

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I don't know how many times I have to type this on this forum. Stop GOING AFTER WOMEN AT WORK!!!! You'll just get yourself in trouble, lose your job, get your boss in trouble, get embroiled in a lawsuit if it all goes wrong. Girls go to work to earn money, not to meet people, so just let her earn her money and you do the same!!! Leave dating and hooking up to OUTSIDE the workplace, please!?!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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