"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WORKEROUTER

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i did not appreciate the mod by the name of "crazykid" simply closing my thread that was posted in the don juan discussion forum titled, "this may be your problem."

the topic does not at all start up a "flame war," and there was absolutely no reason, besides crazykid's personal thoughts, that it should have been closed.

because this pissed me off, im going to post the thread again. im not tryin to get on crazykids case or anything (or any other mods for that reason)...i understand that everyone makes a mistake once in a while, but please try not to simply close threads due to your own personal opinions about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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And you are???????????

Originally posted by metahuman
...and The Edge calls me the "resident Nazi"...
I don't ever recall calling you anything.. I have no clue who you are nor do I want to know who you are or even claim to be... I did call Demon the 'resident nazi' and with good reason. And if he were here he would take it as a term of endearment, or just ignore me as he usually does.

So as far as responses go this will probably be the last time I reply to any of your posts.... whoever you are!!!!!...

The Edge ' Some have it, and some don't '
 

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Re: And you are???????????

Originally posted by The Edge
I don't ever recall calling you anything.. I have no clue who you are nor do I want to know who you are or even claim to be... I did call Demon the 'resident nazi' and with good reason. And if he were here he would take it as a term of endearment, or just ignore me as he usually does.

So as far as responses go this will probably be the last time I reply to any of your posts.... whoever you are!!!!!...

The Edge ' Some have it, and some don't '
Ah, and here we have the "resident idiot."
Speaking of DIESEL first, The Edge says:
His pride is hurt... He was so used to telling the mods and Allen off without receiving anything more than a slap on the wrist. I guess he feels like everyone else on this forum now, and fears his god-like image has been tarnished..

He'll be back.. He'll slither back into the Health and Fitness forum sometime when no one is watching. Oh, and so will our resident nazi,... Demon. ( I miss the phukker..)
Not only is The Edge continuing to use inappropriate degrading language, but he's also--:eek:--avoiding the swear filter!
 

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I'll say it before anyone else does (this time)...

Originally posted by metahuman
Not only is The Edge continuing to use inappropriate degrading language, but he's also--:eek:--avoiding the swear filter!
Grow up, Demon.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Re: I'll say it before anyone else does (this time)...

Originally posted by Von Neuen
Grow up, Demon.
With statements like "God is illogical so, therefore, he must exist", I would suggest to you the same thing: grow up, Vonny.
 
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