"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Helter Skelter

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Yeah,

Go ahead an wall paper your room with the DJ bible.

If you want, you can blow this post up to poster size and put it in the hallway of the nearest Romanian post office.


Your also have my permission to make paper airplanes.

anything else?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
Yeah,

Go ahead an wall paper your room with the DJ bible.

If you want, you can blow this post up to poster size and put it in the hallway of the nearest Romanian post office.


Your also have my permission to make paper airplanes.

anything else?
LOL, your still a fool helmusty Skeezor
 
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Originally posted by squirrels
And your insults are still on a 3rd-grade level. :D

1. You miss judged. I was clowning with him.

2. Who asked you to but into my comments to someone else.

3. I guess your still nosey mr. 6'4 with a 3'2 sized ego!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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