"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To the guys that have multiple plates...

AlmostThere!

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and you're having sex with all of them...

1. How many dates before sex came into the picture?
2. How did you meet your plates?
3. How long on average does your plates last?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Reckoning

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I got 3, pretty close to losing the third one, circumstance presenting.

1. I knew some of them beforehand, so I didn't really go on a date with two of them, we just made out at my/their place and started to have sex eventually. The third one (that relations have worsened with) is an ex.

2. I got to know all three cause we have many mutual friends and I eventually just got closer with all 3 of 'em.

3. It depends on the setup, I guess, how you met them, how good of a bond you have, whether or not you get bored in each other's presence... It can last anywhere from a 1-2 sex encounters to over a year.
 

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I am currently sort of in an LTR, but I used to have between 2 and 3 playes over time.

1. How many dates before sex came into the picture?
Some plates were sex on the same night we met, other plates took 1 to 3 dates. I usually try to get them over to my place really early on.

2. How did you meet your plates?
I met them literally everywhere. I met them through mutual friends, at a hostel, dancing school, the place I worked as a volunteer barkeeper. With everything in life, the place to meet new plates is wherever you are.

3. How long on average does your plates last?
My plates usually last between 1 to 2 weeks and 2 months. That is usually the point where I lose interest in them or they get feelings. Sometimes having feelings isn't bad if you're looking for love, but if you're looking for just poon, get rid of em because they'll get jealous.

My current LTR girl is different, I fell pretty hard for her, she for me, and voila, LTR.
 
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