"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wyldfire and that other girl.. dont remember the name =) EDIT: penkitten :)
but seriously.. how funny isn't it when all the men be kicking all game in your face? I mean, you know like everything about this dating/attraction stuff.
It would be pretty embarrasing meeting a girl that knows all this shyt. Like she's testing you by talking about other guys. And you're trying to keep your cool. But deep down your eyes she can actually see that you're affected by it. And she knows all about it. Haha.
Or when the local "DJ'S" don't call for a couple of days acting all busy and shyt.
U got any funny stories on this stuff?
Peace
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wow just like irl, the girls don't even respond me!!!!
nah j/k :p
 
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If you are faking like you are busy by not calling her, and faking like you're not affected by not talking to other guys, its not only the girls on this forum who it seems funny to. It's ALL girls. It's very very obvious if you are actually interested in a girl, but you fake like you are not. Most of the time, a girl will pick up on it and it will come across as insecure. In order to be a real DJ, you must ACTUALLY not care when she talks about other girls, and ACTUALLY be busy with other girls and other things, so you have a real reason not to call her every day.

-Dan
 
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Originally posted by Delta Male
If you are faking like you are busy by not calling her, and faking like you're not affected by not talking to other guys, its not only the girls on this forum who it seems funny to. It's ALL girls. It's very very obvious if you are actually interested in a girl, but you fake like you are not. Most of the time, a girl will pick up on it and it will come across as insecure. In order to be a real DJ, you must ACTUALLY not care when she talks about other girls, and ACTUALLY be busy with other girls and other things, so you have a real reason not to call her every day.

-Dan
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big ups danny boy.. big ups :)
 
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this is true!

and if you want to break this problem..you can either be busy as ****, be a good faker..or talk to multiple women!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls know all that stuff buddy, they don't need to go on this board.
 
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Originally posted by ZeQ
Girls know all that stuff buddy, they don't need to go on this board.
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I don't think they really know ALL this stuff bro :)
 
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you know, i can tell when a guy likes me alot even when he pretends he isnt that into me.

i call it the "rooster effect"

when he walks up, he struts his stuff, puffs his chest out , and starts talking really deep and loud, or tries like hell to be funny.


or there is another routine, i call it "quiet mouse"

some guys who are really interested suddenly become so very shy and quiet in your presence.


the weird thing is, most girls are the same way, you just gotta learn to spot it out.

watch for the giggle. if a young chick is into you, she will laugh at just about anything you say or do . the more giggles you get, the more she likes you.



thanks for forgetting my name haha
 
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Fools

You either obsess on us or play tricks on us. Don't you know that humans are meant to have feelings?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ok .... i'm going through the exact stage at the moment, it is hard but to the experts , do tell me what would be the best thing to do when she starts ignoring u all the sudden and u can sense that she's tryin to get you jeolous
what would be the best thing to do ?

a) be cool with it ?

b) show some annoyance ?

C) pretend to be busy ?

i guess this is the part where most of us is pushed to the corner whereby the utmost confusion is starting to show itself T_T
 
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this might eb a little bit off topic but it does concern a female perspective

I just came back from my boys house and his roommate is a fine-a$$ 27-year old former Raiders cheerleader

we are hecka cool and she was basically tellling me that older, more grown up women love sensitive men who care

I was sensitive, "perfect" man in my past relationship and then ended up in the friendszone so I didn't want to agree with her

she then explained to me that she's 27 and my last girl was 19
 
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