"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To the Courageous Guys...

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What's a pressing problem you have that you'd actually pay someone good money for if they gave you a solution that worked?

I'd like to hear if you have one, and what it is.

Feel free to go heavy on the details, and let me know what you've already tried and what the negative results were.

I want to get to know some guys here, and I've found the best way to do that is to get insight into their most important problems in life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Everyone has problems.

But I get it; not everyone's courageous enough to admit them, especially publicly, amongst strangers on a forum, where embarrassment might ensure.

So I'll tell you what; once I get my PMs enabled, message me.

How do you know you're not in the presence of someone who can offer you a workable solution?

What would you pay in monetary value to have your most pressing problem solved (though I'm asking nothing in return for a conversation)?
 
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