"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TO the Bald DJs ; went sarging with my Hat on

KneghtRyder

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me: bald since 22

today I went sarging with my hat on

now is the ****ed up part, all during this time i was sargin women WITH A HAT ON women were holding my EC, returning my smiles and 1 indian girl WITH her parents even walked right into me; women were talking to me freely...not having to worry they see my back sides ..easier to be more confident with them.

there is no hairline to frame teh face without a hair

part of it was hat does project a frienly image/non-threatening..

I am confused as heck ...attractive or not ? I don't know if I should continue wearing the hat or not ? The advice I got earlier was just to shave it off and man up to my balding /mistake etc


I will be try again today without my hat and get back to you on this very thread later tonight !
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Forms

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I'm starting to thin a little in the back, but if I keep it short it's not too obvious.

If it really starts to thin worse I'll probably just either shave it all off, or keep it real short, Bruce Willis style.

I guess you can wear the hat to iniitially build interest and ease them into the idea of dating a bald guy (one of the greatest PUAs I ever met does this, and he's 100% bald), but it's probably going to go bad a few times and your ego's going to take a hit.

However, if you're dating quality girls, they'll get over it if they like you enough. And, honestly, some girls just don't care if you're bald.
 

Soprano

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i keep my head completely buzzed or shaved, girls like to touch and rub :rock:
 

KarmaSutra

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I'm as bald as a fvcking cue ball and absolutely love it (Mrs. K is fond of it too :D )!What I've found, and this applies to damn near everything, is if you see something as a disabilty and try to cover it up it looks like you're running from a problem or "covering it up".

Fvck that. Unless you have something to hide or are ashamed let is shine.

Women will always, ALWAYS, pick up on a guy who is ashamed of himself for whatever reason.
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Yeah I gotta agree with the guy above me. I also shaved my head because I was insecure about it. Got a lot of compliments on it too after I did it. Well I actually did it for cancer but like... worked for me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KneghtRyder

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even though theres lots of benefits of wearing the hat,

i just cant be myself hiding behind a hat to cover up my insecurities
 

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the hat is a prop that keeps you on top. Like sunglasses.......its clothes that make da man.

Think of it like this, A lot of women have a black dress that they absolutely look amazing in.........some chics adore a dude with a ball cap on backwords.

I say Keep the cap to be the mack...........nuff said.
 

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COD said:
the hat is a prop that keeps you on top. Like sunglasses.......its clothes that make da man.

Think of it like this, A lot of women have a black dress that they absolutely look amazing in.........some chics adore a dude with a ball cap on backwords.

I say Keep the cap to be the mack...........nuff said.
You're retarded.
 

DonutMan

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Wearing a hat is covering up your true self...if they cant handle the fact that youre bald, then **** them...Do shave it off though, if it looks sloppy, thats what I do. Theyre gonna find out your bald eventually, might as well make it easier on yourself right off the bat.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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