"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TO the Bald DJs ; went sarging with my Hat on

KneghtRyder

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me: bald since 22

today I went sarging with my hat on

now is the ****ed up part, all during this time i was sargin women WITH A HAT ON women were holding my EC, returning my smiles and 1 indian girl WITH her parents even walked right into me; women were talking to me freely...not having to worry they see my back sides ..easier to be more confident with them.

there is no hairline to frame teh face without a hair

part of it was hat does project a frienly image/non-threatening..

I am confused as heck ...attractive or not ? I don't know if I should continue wearing the hat or not ? The advice I got earlier was just to shave it off and man up to my balding /mistake etc


I will be try again today without my hat and get back to you on this very thread later tonight !
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Forms

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I'm starting to thin a little in the back, but if I keep it short it's not too obvious.

If it really starts to thin worse I'll probably just either shave it all off, or keep it real short, Bruce Willis style.

I guess you can wear the hat to iniitially build interest and ease them into the idea of dating a bald guy (one of the greatest PUAs I ever met does this, and he's 100% bald), but it's probably going to go bad a few times and your ego's going to take a hit.

However, if you're dating quality girls, they'll get over it if they like you enough. And, honestly, some girls just don't care if you're bald.
 

Soprano

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i keep my head completely buzzed or shaved, girls like to touch and rub :rock:
 

KarmaSutra

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I'm as bald as a fvcking cue ball and absolutely love it (Mrs. K is fond of it too :D )!What I've found, and this applies to damn near everything, is if you see something as a disabilty and try to cover it up it looks like you're running from a problem or "covering it up".

Fvck that. Unless you have something to hide or are ashamed let is shine.

Women will always, ALWAYS, pick up on a guy who is ashamed of himself for whatever reason.
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Yeah I gotta agree with the guy above me. I also shaved my head because I was insecure about it. Got a lot of compliments on it too after I did it. Well I actually did it for cancer but like... worked for me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KneghtRyder

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even though theres lots of benefits of wearing the hat,

i just cant be myself hiding behind a hat to cover up my insecurities
 

COD

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the hat is a prop that keeps you on top. Like sunglasses.......its clothes that make da man.

Think of it like this, A lot of women have a black dress that they absolutely look amazing in.........some chics adore a dude with a ball cap on backwords.

I say Keep the cap to be the mack...........nuff said.
 

TheEdgeOf

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COD said:
the hat is a prop that keeps you on top. Like sunglasses.......its clothes that make da man.

Think of it like this, A lot of women have a black dress that they absolutely look amazing in.........some chics adore a dude with a ball cap on backwords.

I say Keep the cap to be the mack...........nuff said.
You're retarded.
 

DonutMan

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Wearing a hat is covering up your true self...if they cant handle the fact that youre bald, then **** them...Do shave it off though, if it looks sloppy, thats what I do. Theyre gonna find out your bald eventually, might as well make it easier on yourself right off the bat.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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