"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To stop the threads about getting abs.

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Almost everyone has a six pack.

But what most people want is a VISIBLE six pack. So think about it for a second... what's the difference between the fat guy who does 100 sit ups every second day but seems to have no six pack, and the model who rarely works out and has a six pack that could cut glass?

The fat guy is... FAT!

The model is... SKINNY!

If you want a damn six pack, reduce you body fat! That means consuming less calories.

Put simply - eat less.

[Note: Treat abs like any other muscle. They should not be trained every second day for 100 reps. They should be worked for one set to failure, then allowed to recover - for more than a day or two! - and then, when your reps or poundages improve, your abs will get bigger and stronger.]

For the lazy man, here's the equation for getting abs:

Consume less (calories) + train abs occasionally = Visible abs.

De La Soul
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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man your confuseing me diesel says eat more you say eat less

blah blah blah I want my six pack already make up your minds what is the best way? you should know moderator
 

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I think what he means is eat less calories, not eat less food =)


Where is calories found? Which foods has the most calories? I've read some food labels, and their amounts don't really tell me much (since I'm not too experienced with food).
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies:
I think what he means is eat less calories, not eat less food =)


Where is calories found? Which foods has the most calories? I've read some food labels, and their amounts don't really tell me much (since I'm not too experienced with food).
right right they are saying two diffrent things eat less calories says de la soul, whale diesel says calories is what helps to get a six pack eating more like stake etc

aslo when I eat a meal at a resturant how the hell do I know what caloris im eating?

or a pizza?

so this is why I like diesels theory more
 

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Ok, I'm not advocating calorie counting or starving youself, I'm just giving advice based on common sense, experience, and observations.

Generally I'd take Diesel's fitness advice over mine, but it's really up to you.

I haven't read what Diesel has to say.

But logically, to have a visible six pack, you need to have low body fat. To reduce your fat, you eat fewer calories.

D?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by De La Soul:
Ok, I'm not advocating calorie counting or starving youself, I'm just giving advice based on common sense, experience, and observations.

Generally I'd take Diesel's fitness advice over mine, but it's really up to you.

I haven't read what Diesel has to say.

But logically, to have a visible six pack, you need to have low body fat. To reduce your fat, you eat fewer calories.

D?

DLS
well....ok yea I haveint even read all of diesel's theory yet. just had time to glace through it so I wont say anymore intill I read more
 

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i read from sources that u have to keep ur calorie count low for abs...but then u have to keep ur calorie count high for muscle gain.

so...im assuming u can't really work at defining GREAT abs at the same time while aiming for mass gains?
 

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Originally posted by oOh Nasty:
i read from sources that u have to keep ur calorie count low for abs...but then u have to keep ur calorie count high for muscle gain.

so...im assuming u can't really work at defining GREAT abs at the same time while aiming for mass gains?
Yes.

When you're bulking up, often your abs will blur or disappear.

De La
 

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Originally posted by De La Soul:
Yes.

When you're bulking up, often your abs will blur or disappear.

De La

so i guess getting urself to look great takes TIME..and lots of it -_-.
 

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Originally posted by oOh Nasty:
so i guess getting urself to look great takes TIME..and lots of it -_-.
Yep.

Take no shortcuts.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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