"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
To steal or not to steal
- Thread starter Tedward
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TDOT
Don Juan
Please provide a little more insight into how you keep her ready and primed without crossing that line?
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Lik I gotta moral question for you. Do you think it is wrong that I do that because my girl will likely cheat on me or otherwise? Hence wouldn't she do the same thing to you? Let another guy push her buttons and then she breaks up with him? You are still gaming a taken chick just not doing anything with her....yet.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
No not wrong. Have your opinion and beliefs but have them for the right reasons. A choice made by elimination is only going to **** you over (I suck at class A, I suck at class B, so I'll take class C since it's the only choice left).Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
Lik I gotta moral question for you. Do you think it is wrong that I do that because my girl will likely cheat on me or otherwise?
What really keeps you able to stay away from girls with boyfriends is choice. One girl isn't that important when you have another 10 in line. Who cares what you do? No one, the world will keep turning regardless. But if you feel ashamed of what you do, don't do it.
In my opinion, may the best man win. The world is ours for the taking. I choose not to because it's more enjoyable for me to respect the other guy. It's bad enough his gf tries to imagine he's me =D.
TDOT, I'm talking about seduction here man. Something most people forget to do with a chick.... MAKE HER HORNY!!! When she's with you, she's having the time of her life. Then she sits down and you start letting your hands play on her body... One glimpse at the amazing life is you lead is enough for them to think about you! Breathing gets heavier and you can see in her eyes that she wants you so bad... All the while you've been leading this great conversation. Lean in... Stop close to her mouth as you can both feel each others warm breath and then open your eyes, stare at her and back up saying 'But you're taken' .
Most guys can initiate kino but that's all. It stays to friendly touching and they wonder why they can't make it sexual. You make it sexual touching and that's what she'll expect and accept next time hoping for the same experience.
just my opinion