"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
To steal or not to steal
- Thread starter Tedward
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TDOT
Don Juan
Please provide a little more insight into how you keep her ready and primed without crossing that line?
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Lik I gotta moral question for you. Do you think it is wrong that I do that because my girl will likely cheat on me or otherwise? Hence wouldn't she do the same thing to you? Let another guy push her buttons and then she breaks up with him? You are still gaming a taken chick just not doing anything with her....yet.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
No not wrong. Have your opinion and beliefs but have them for the right reasons. A choice made by elimination is only going to **** you over (I suck at class A, I suck at class B, so I'll take class C since it's the only choice left).Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
Lik I gotta moral question for you. Do you think it is wrong that I do that because my girl will likely cheat on me or otherwise?
What really keeps you able to stay away from girls with boyfriends is choice. One girl isn't that important when you have another 10 in line. Who cares what you do? No one, the world will keep turning regardless. But if you feel ashamed of what you do, don't do it.
In my opinion, may the best man win. The world is ours for the taking. I choose not to because it's more enjoyable for me to respect the other guy. It's bad enough his gf tries to imagine he's me =D.
TDOT, I'm talking about seduction here man. Something most people forget to do with a chick.... MAKE HER HORNY!!! When she's with you, she's having the time of her life. Then she sits down and you start letting your hands play on her body... One glimpse at the amazing life is you lead is enough for them to think about you! Breathing gets heavier and you can see in her eyes that she wants you so bad... All the while you've been leading this great conversation. Lean in... Stop close to her mouth as you can both feel each others warm breath and then open your eyes, stare at her and back up saying 'But you're taken' .
Most guys can initiate kino but that's all. It stays to friendly touching and they wonder why they can't make it sexual. You make it sexual touching and that's what she'll expect and accept next time hoping for the same experience.
just my opinion