"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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to shave or not to shave?

dude04

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is it normal to shave your privates or go natural? i seen too many guys in porn videos with no hair on their ****. is it that they don't even have hairs on their **** or they shave it everyday? what do girls think about this? do they like guys with no hair on their **** or one who has a forest on their private? i really want to know whether to shave my privates. do girls prefer a smooth **** or a rough one? that's the question.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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VdoubleR

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dude04 said:
do girls prefer a smooth **** or a rough one? that's the question.
This is just like asking: "Do girls prefer guys with light colored skin or dark colored skin?"

The answer for this type of question is always: preference.

Instead of worrying about what a girl you'll meet will like or not like I advice you to worry about what you like.

Do you want to shave? If so, then shave.
Do you want to trim? If so, then trim.

-VdoubleR
 

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Generally i think if it's what you want and you're comfortable with it then they'll also be comfortable with it. However saying that.. if you've got something crazy going on i'm sure everyone would be greatful for a bit of a trim if only for hygiene sake lol
 

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FYI: Some girls don't like the stubble after you shave. Other girls hate the hair when giving head. Maybe well-trimmed is the best middle ground.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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classy broadside said:
FYI: Some girls don't like the stubble after you shave. Other girls hate the hair when giving head. Maybe well-trimmed is the best middle ground.
I agree with this approach. A trim is easier to maintain and no girl is going to freak out because you aren't "shaved". Some guys shave but most don't, girls sure don't expect it and those that do aren't the kind I want to be having sex with.

Sex is dirty. So if she is bothered by "trimmed" instead of "shaved" then there is likely a whole host of acts that she won't do and is probably a total bore in the rack.
 

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Just to add i think that they shave most the guys in the pornos because it makes it look bigger down there. It is somehow part of their marketing strategy because i guess some women or guys with small ****s who want to pretend that they get are giving satisfying sex with a big **** can imagine it.

Its really preference though as everyone has said. However, i have hair down there and sometimes i think i would get better head if it was gone but who knows lol im not gonna shave for a while
 
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