"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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to shave or not to shave?

dude04

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is it normal to shave your privates or go natural? i seen too many guys in porn videos with no hair on their ****. is it that they don't even have hairs on their **** or they shave it everyday? what do girls think about this? do they like guys with no hair on their **** or one who has a forest on their private? i really want to know whether to shave my privates. do girls prefer a smooth **** or a rough one? that's the question.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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VdoubleR

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dude04 said:
do girls prefer a smooth **** or a rough one? that's the question.
This is just like asking: "Do girls prefer guys with light colored skin or dark colored skin?"

The answer for this type of question is always: preference.

Instead of worrying about what a girl you'll meet will like or not like I advice you to worry about what you like.

Do you want to shave? If so, then shave.
Do you want to trim? If so, then trim.

-VdoubleR
 

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Generally i think if it's what you want and you're comfortable with it then they'll also be comfortable with it. However saying that.. if you've got something crazy going on i'm sure everyone would be greatful for a bit of a trim if only for hygiene sake lol
 

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FYI: Some girls don't like the stubble after you shave. Other girls hate the hair when giving head. Maybe well-trimmed is the best middle ground.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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classy broadside said:
FYI: Some girls don't like the stubble after you shave. Other girls hate the hair when giving head. Maybe well-trimmed is the best middle ground.
I agree with this approach. A trim is easier to maintain and no girl is going to freak out because you aren't "shaved". Some guys shave but most don't, girls sure don't expect it and those that do aren't the kind I want to be having sex with.

Sex is dirty. So if she is bothered by "trimmed" instead of "shaved" then there is likely a whole host of acts that she won't do and is probably a total bore in the rack.
 

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Just to add i think that they shave most the guys in the pornos because it makes it look bigger down there. It is somehow part of their marketing strategy because i guess some women or guys with small ****s who want to pretend that they get are giving satisfying sex with a big **** can imagine it.

Its really preference though as everyone has said. However, i have hair down there and sometimes i think i would get better head if it was gone but who knows lol im not gonna shave for a while
 
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