eagletal88
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Well here is some quick background...
This girl works behind the desk at my gym and after a few months of small chit-chatting I finally asked her out,( I had my reservations about her so it took me a little while to warm up to her and found out she is actually a pretty cool chick). I also found out she was asking about me to some other members who I know pretty good, so that is one reason I knew I had a shot. So anyways I got her phone number said we should hang out sometime... but I told her I wouldn't be able to for a little while because I had to work 6 straight days, (I work 2nd shift).
I then went through a phase where I lost all ambition to date girls and never ended up calling her, (probably stupid of me, lol) but I just didn't feel like it. The next time I spoke with her was like a week later at the gym, which mainly consisted of small talk and no mention of hanging out, (again I still wasn't even trying at this point). Again I saw her the next day which was Friday and more small talk, although she has been extra friendly during these last couple of days... so I wasn't sure if she was trying to get my to set a time for a date or not.
I then went snowboarding over the weekend and actually a couple of times I found myself thinking about her. Now I went into the gym Monday morning, ( I guess it's yesterday now) and did some small talk when I first swiped in. When I was working out I decided I was gonna set a time to hang out with her when leaving the gym. As I was leaving I saw one of my friends talking to her at the desk and decided to talk to him for a little bit, and she also joined and we kinda had a 3 way conversation about random stuff. He then left and I began just talking to her, which was actually going really good as I was feeling super confident. So I finally put my foot down and changed the subject abruptly and asked what she was doing Wednesday night, to which she replied she was gonna eat dinner with her dad in another town.
She then said "thats your only night off this week?" -- but she kinda said it in tone like she was almost laughing at my attempt to ask her out
I then told her, "no I have Friday off"
Her, "uh, night out with the girls"
She then pointed at her scheduler book and said it's very full and that she if a very busy girl. I told her I could relate, then she quickly changed the subject... I then made quick work of the remaining conversation and ejected. I felt pretty put off by her at this point.
The final dialougue ended with...
Me "Adios" or however you spell the spanish word...
Her "have a great Day!"
Me "you too" no exclamation mark
So based on all of that, I would appreciate and feedback on whether I should pursue it further, (if so what do you reccomend my next move) or just next her.
Thanks in advance!
This girl works behind the desk at my gym and after a few months of small chit-chatting I finally asked her out,( I had my reservations about her so it took me a little while to warm up to her and found out she is actually a pretty cool chick). I also found out she was asking about me to some other members who I know pretty good, so that is one reason I knew I had a shot. So anyways I got her phone number said we should hang out sometime... but I told her I wouldn't be able to for a little while because I had to work 6 straight days, (I work 2nd shift).
I then went through a phase where I lost all ambition to date girls and never ended up calling her, (probably stupid of me, lol) but I just didn't feel like it. The next time I spoke with her was like a week later at the gym, which mainly consisted of small talk and no mention of hanging out, (again I still wasn't even trying at this point). Again I saw her the next day which was Friday and more small talk, although she has been extra friendly during these last couple of days... so I wasn't sure if she was trying to get my to set a time for a date or not.
I then went snowboarding over the weekend and actually a couple of times I found myself thinking about her. Now I went into the gym Monday morning, ( I guess it's yesterday now) and did some small talk when I first swiped in. When I was working out I decided I was gonna set a time to hang out with her when leaving the gym. As I was leaving I saw one of my friends talking to her at the desk and decided to talk to him for a little bit, and she also joined and we kinda had a 3 way conversation about random stuff. He then left and I began just talking to her, which was actually going really good as I was feeling super confident. So I finally put my foot down and changed the subject abruptly and asked what she was doing Wednesday night, to which she replied she was gonna eat dinner with her dad in another town.
She then said "thats your only night off this week?" -- but she kinda said it in tone like she was almost laughing at my attempt to ask her out
I then told her, "no I have Friday off"
Her, "uh, night out with the girls"
She then pointed at her scheduler book and said it's very full and that she if a very busy girl. I told her I could relate, then she quickly changed the subject... I then made quick work of the remaining conversation and ejected. I felt pretty put off by her at this point.
The final dialougue ended with...
Me "Adios" or however you spell the spanish word...
Her "have a great Day!"
Me "you too" no exclamation mark
So based on all of that, I would appreciate and feedback on whether I should pursue it further, (if so what do you reccomend my next move) or just next her.
Thanks in advance!