"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone have a problem of being too quite during a conversation? I usually don't have anything to say but I don't really see myself as a quite person. In fact I see myself as a talkative person. Maybe I have an insecurity about expressing myself because I do talk a lot around my parents.

Does anyone have any advice for me? Being too quite I think sometime lead others to think that ur conceited or that u hate being with them
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The DJ bible is full of information on conversation techniques. I've been doing homework all day and am in no mood to go into detail about conversation, but suffice to say that you only get good at it through practice.
 
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david90 said:
Anyone have a problem of being too quite during a conversation? I usually don't have anything to say but I don't really see myself as a quite person. In fact I see myself as a talkative person. Maybe I have an insecurity about expressing myself because I do talk a lot around my parents.

Does anyone have any advice for me? Being too quite I think sometime lead others to think that ur conceited or that u hate being with them
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Looks like we have the same problem. I just had a girl ask me "why are you so quiet?" See thread: she says "why are you so quiet?"
 
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Its good to know how to talk and to talk fairly often, but don't be afraid of silence. Learning how to be comfortable sitting next to a girl in silence is just as important as being able to talk to her.

And sometimes, you just need to shut up and let things marinate a little bit. Too many times have I seen guys talk and talk and talk and ruin what they had going just 10 minutes before. I've done it a few times as well, I admit. Say something witty, both of you laugh, then be quiet for a minute. Let her think about you. You understand.
 
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