"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone have a problem of being too quite during a conversation? I usually don't have anything to say but I don't really see myself as a quite person. In fact I see myself as a talkative person. Maybe I have an insecurity about expressing myself because I do talk a lot around my parents.

Does anyone have any advice for me? Being too quite I think sometime lead others to think that ur conceited or that u hate being with them
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The DJ bible is full of information on conversation techniques. I've been doing homework all day and am in no mood to go into detail about conversation, but suffice to say that you only get good at it through practice.
 
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david90 said:
Anyone have a problem of being too quite during a conversation? I usually don't have anything to say but I don't really see myself as a quite person. In fact I see myself as a talkative person. Maybe I have an insecurity about expressing myself because I do talk a lot around my parents.

Does anyone have any advice for me? Being too quite I think sometime lead others to think that ur conceited or that u hate being with them
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Looks like we have the same problem. I just had a girl ask me "why are you so quiet?" See thread: she says "why are you so quiet?"
 
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Its good to know how to talk and to talk fairly often, but don't be afraid of silence. Learning how to be comfortable sitting next to a girl in silence is just as important as being able to talk to her.

And sometimes, you just need to shut up and let things marinate a little bit. Too many times have I seen guys talk and talk and talk and ruin what they had going just 10 minutes before. I've done it a few times as well, I admit. Say something witty, both of you laugh, then be quiet for a minute. Let her think about you. You understand.
 
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