"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To online date or not to online date

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IM gonna be honest im bored

Im working remotely due to moving to the most boring city in the uk to finish studying

Plymouth UK has to be the most...crappy place to live for a year , should I go online date on POF to stop being bored ? Ive joined the local rowing club and get out a fair bit as well....but im still so damn bored !!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I run a home-base business that has me busy in the office and involves a lot of travel.

On-line dating is a good addition for those of us not in an office or otherwise constantly out-and-about.

At 23, you're a bit young for OLD. But your situation is different too. So, go for it. But study up on how to improve your odds.
 
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Every woman that has an online profile is online dating when she is going out on dates with men. If she is meeting men off Facebook or Twitter, she is using online dating to meet them so using a dating site is basically not any different when their intentions are to attention wh0re and to meet men. When you're options are limited in a crappy town, take it to online to see if you can find other women. Why would you not give yourself more opportunities to date? Online dating is there for that purpose, use it if you need to.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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