"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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To online date or not to online date

countwoofoolah

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IM gonna be honest im bored

Im working remotely due to moving to the most boring city in the uk to finish studying

Plymouth UK has to be the most...crappy place to live for a year , should I go online date on POF to stop being bored ? Ive joined the local rowing club and get out a fair bit as well....but im still so damn bored !!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tictac

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I run a home-base business that has me busy in the office and involves a lot of travel.

On-line dating is a good addition for those of us not in an office or otherwise constantly out-and-about.

At 23, you're a bit young for OLD. But your situation is different too. So, go for it. But study up on how to improve your odds.
 

ELMER_GANTRY

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Every woman that has an online profile is online dating when she is going out on dates with men. If she is meeting men off Facebook or Twitter, she is using online dating to meet them so using a dating site is basically not any different when their intentions are to attention wh0re and to meet men. When you're options are limited in a crappy town, take it to online to see if you can find other women. Why would you not give yourself more opportunities to date? Online dating is there for that purpose, use it if you need to.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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