"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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To Next or not to Next her?

SamePendo

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Hell yea!!
NEXT HER!


Nice Guy, along with Mr. AFC rush to me and shout:

Oh! But she ... NEXT HER!
But ive always ... NEXT
But ... NEXT


NEXT NEXT NEXT.
When in doubt NEXT.

Shout it!! NEXT!

But REALLY!! She ... NEXT



NEXT
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Walden

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Youre being sacastic and hillarious right?
 

BGMan

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I'd say this is true... to a point.

If a girl plays games, withdraw. This doesn't necessarily mean to NEXT, but to leave her wondering if you NEXTed her or not.

Then, if she begs you to come back, and her behavior has improved, give her another chance.

When she pulls away, YOU pull away further.

BGMan
 

SamePendo

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You are exactly right BG

in the mean time:

NEXT!
 

So pimp its scary

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I would agree, you can next a girl for bad behavior... have her call back and then continue where you left off...

The next isn't soo much never talk to them again... it just means don't pursue them anymore...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Exactly!
When we Next someone, if there was any IL, it will create the challenge effect. AND it will improve our selfesteem because when we next we are nexting negative energy around us.

NEEEEEEEEEEXT!
 

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yah, she's playing immature games. show her you can up her too. And at the same time jock other girls and make sure she sees it. If she gets pass, let her do all the work.. make her ask you out. BWAHAHAHA
 

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i agreed:p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

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Originally posted by BGMan
I'd say this is true... to a point.

If a girl plays games, withdraw. This doesn't necessarily mean to NEXT, but to leave her wondering if you NEXTed her or not.

Then, if she begs you to come back, and her behavior has improved, give her another chance.

When she pulls away, YOU pull away further.

BGMan
I do this but it doesn't really do anything besides creating distance. Can you visualize this too? I just immediately cut off contact right away on the first voicemail not returned or a date cancelled. I just treat others how they treat me. Sometimes I think persistence is a worthless effort because dating and relationships is a two way thing, it should never be one way. You call, she calls. You setup date, she goes.
 

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Withdraw, same as NEXTing.

We've got memory, so we remember her when she's changed and calls us/emails/etc.



In the mean time, NEXT!!!
 
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