"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tomatoes

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Hey boys and girls.


Just looking for a second opinion on nexting a current acquisition. My wing doesnt think I should next her.

Basically....Saturday night im sitting in my local pub and im board out my head. Sh!t entertainment. So i see if i can get anywhere more intresting. Had a missed call from one of the girls im currently on terms with. So i ring her back and shes in town. She offered me to come out and join them. I said i will think about it (I had already started to leave but didnt want to seem too eager). Text her 10 mins later saying i was heading in....She didnt text back but then she never has credit.....

Got into town....About 15 miles.....Gave her a call. "Oh we are heading home now". I offered her a lift as I drove in expecting to take her back to mine. She declined saying she was tired....

Basically. She asked me to come to town then as soon as i got there she left.....I didnt even see her. I cant see any reason why I should put up with that sh!t?

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tomatoes said:
Basically. She asked me to come to town then as soon as i got there she left.....I didnt even see her. I cant see any reason why I should put up with that sh!t?

Sarge On!
This rings bells from a flakey b!tch I use to see.
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other night was ALMOST the clincher, she invites me out to meet her but I couldnt make it for awhile because one of my good mates was leaving the state and having a going away party.

I rock up alone at the club shes at and not 20 minutes later she says "got to go home, mums got a migraine" wtf at 3:40 in the morning.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=76665
Take my advice and next her, if shes starting this sh!t now she wont all of a sudden change.
 

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Yeah....Just what i was thinking....Im not short on options atm. I will prob just put her on the cold shoulder and see if she reacts. Not like im going to hold my breath thow :rolleyes: .


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Don't get stuck on this one... next her. There are lots of girls out there. Trust me. I took my brothers gf out and a bout and asked her to watch for who looks at me. I was quite happy with the reality that a lot of women were looking at me. Three months later I found a good gf. Wait it out... and find a good one.

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Why does your wingman say you shouldn't next her?

Personally I would be ripping, you drive a 30 mile round trip after she asked you to come out. You texted that you would be going and she didn't make it a point to tell you not to come even though she asked you in the first place.

Did she even apologise?

That said - nexting her might be an overreaction - if you really like her then don't but make sure she knows how angry you where. If you have other (better) options then just move on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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d9930380 said:
That said - nexting her might be an overreaction - if you really like her then don't but make sure she knows how angry you where. If you have other (better) options then just move on.
True. As we all know it, women are often total idiots with no sense of time keeping, direction, or logic.

So just like a dog, make it very clear that you are not happy with her behaviour and punish her but give her the opportunity to make it up to you.

Honestly, what happened to you happens to so many guys ALL the time. When you finally f-close her, make sure you shoot it in her eye. Trust me, it will make you feel a whole lot better about the situation.
 
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