What's wrong with that its not like i am a full on afc, i posted it on here because i'm pretty sure she visits this site and knows who i am and i wanted her to see it since we haven't seen each other in a while. I first came to this site about two and a half years ago and i have learnt quite a bit since then but one thing i have learned is its good to say stuff like this once in a while and do what feels right sometimes. This isn't something i would post too often because i have learnt that would probably be a bad thing to do. Believe me i'm not as afc as you think.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
To My Girlfriend
- Thread starter OzzyBoy
- Start date