"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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there's this girl i've been recently talking to and she has this thing about really tryin to make it a point that she doesn't want to be my gf. (which doesnt bother me at all really) we hung out yesterday and she made a mention of us goin on vacation together where i was like "no way, i'll probably have a gf by then and if not you'll ruin my chances out there of other girls"

today my friend texted me askin about her and i thought i was texting him back but it went to her instead since both their names are next to each other in my phone. the text read "yesterday, she suggested goin on vacation together. i said no way i might have a gf by then who i'd take instead"

now knowin she received this, would it work to my advantage with her? in a way of showing disinterest so she'll try harder or will it back fire?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cNfny said:
...i was like "no way, i'll probably have a gf by then and if not you'll ruin my chances out there of other girls"
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Very good response - your best bet is to move on to women who are interested in you and avoid all contact with her - unless she just wants to be a hor without the "G;F" label - which is merely a full-time hor!!
 
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so does this mean that my remark made her feel more attraction towards me?
 
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lol. Don't think so :p

Unless there's already some interest.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think it might work and if it doesn't who cares she didn't want to be your gf in the first place anyways.
 
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cNfny said:
so does this mean that my remark made her feel more attraction towards me?
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No

An even if there was a the slightest attraction at that time it is already gone. (Don't get it mixed up with her Attraction based on your personality qualities)

But just curious...do you think this chick is hot?

Reason I ask because she mentioned to go on a vacation together, assuming it's you and her. That is almost like a subtle excuse to fuk. I personally love traveling and if a chick wants to come travel with me, then you damn skippy I'm going to go.

Think about it pure fuking and having a great vacation. Ok yea there might be some hot women there but is your game tight? Do you think you're going to a fuk a girl down there?

Here it is you have a girl who doesn't want to be you're bf and wants to go on a vacation. If you have decent game Sex is a given because it's you and her. If you love to travel then its like a win/win situation.

But hey that's just what I'd do personally, it's really your choice
 
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