"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cNfny

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there's this girl i've been recently talking to and she has this thing about really tryin to make it a point that she doesn't want to be my gf. (which doesnt bother me at all really) we hung out yesterday and she made a mention of us goin on vacation together where i was like "no way, i'll probably have a gf by then and if not you'll ruin my chances out there of other girls"

today my friend texted me askin about her and i thought i was texting him back but it went to her instead since both their names are next to each other in my phone. the text read "yesterday, she suggested goin on vacation together. i said no way i might have a gf by then who i'd take instead"

now knowin she received this, would it work to my advantage with her? in a way of showing disinterest so she'll try harder or will it back fire?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cNfny said:
...i was like "no way, i'll probably have a gf by then and if not you'll ruin my chances out there of other girls"
Very good response - your best bet is to move on to women who are interested in you and avoid all contact with her - unless she just wants to be a hor without the "G;F" label - which is merely a full-time hor!!
 

cNfny

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so does this mean that my remark made her feel more attraction towards me?
 

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lol. Don't think so :p

Unless there's already some interest.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think it might work and if it doesn't who cares she didn't want to be your gf in the first place anyways.
 

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cNfny said:
so does this mean that my remark made her feel more attraction towards me?
No

An even if there was a the slightest attraction at that time it is already gone. (Don't get it mixed up with her Attraction based on your personality qualities)

But just curious...do you think this chick is hot?

Reason I ask because she mentioned to go on a vacation together, assuming it's you and her. That is almost like a subtle excuse to fuk. I personally love traveling and if a chick wants to come travel with me, then you damn skippy I'm going to go.

Think about it pure fuking and having a great vacation. Ok yea there might be some hot women there but is your game tight? Do you think you're going to a fuk a girl down there?

Here it is you have a girl who doesn't want to be you're bf and wants to go on a vacation. If you have decent game Sex is a given because it's you and her. If you love to travel then its like a win/win situation.

But hey that's just what I'd do personally, it's really your choice
 
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