"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey people, hows life

well no more small talk i need some advice

ive gotten really good at talking to women, i talk so much with them and great conversations and have fun with them but now i think the opposite effect has happened, im having so much trouble talking to the guy friends that i have.

Ive just recently joied a dance crew and theres six people on the crew. We hang out alot so we can be a team or build thta team relationship and i find myself to be the quiet guy, but its weird because im not like that. Then i might find myself alone with one of the guys and theres silence, since i talk so much with women i have the feeling to break the silence, so i try that when i have the silence when im with one of the guys and it just comes across as me trying to hard to start convo.

i know theres a time for silence and i let thoes happen but theres is a time for conversation also, anybody have advice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This a new one - a DJ asking for advice on how to talk to guys? OOOOKKKAAY! And they are all your partners in a dance crew?? OOOOKKKAAY!

I don't know how to answer - sorry:( Are you intimidated by other men?
 
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