"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey people, hows life

well no more small talk i need some advice

ive gotten really good at talking to women, i talk so much with them and great conversations and have fun with them but now i think the opposite effect has happened, im having so much trouble talking to the guy friends that i have.

Ive just recently joied a dance crew and theres six people on the crew. We hang out alot so we can be a team or build thta team relationship and i find myself to be the quiet guy, but its weird because im not like that. Then i might find myself alone with one of the guys and theres silence, since i talk so much with women i have the feeling to break the silence, so i try that when i have the silence when im with one of the guys and it just comes across as me trying to hard to start convo.

i know theres a time for silence and i let thoes happen but theres is a time for conversation also, anybody have advice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This a new one - a DJ asking for advice on how to talk to guys? OOOOKKKAAY! And they are all your partners in a dance crew?? OOOOKKKAAY!

I don't know how to answer - sorry:( Are you intimidated by other men?
 
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