"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hey people, hows life

well no more small talk i need some advice

ive gotten really good at talking to women, i talk so much with them and great conversations and have fun with them but now i think the opposite effect has happened, im having so much trouble talking to the guy friends that i have.

Ive just recently joied a dance crew and theres six people on the crew. We hang out alot so we can be a team or build thta team relationship and i find myself to be the quiet guy, but its weird because im not like that. Then i might find myself alone with one of the guys and theres silence, since i talk so much with women i have the feeling to break the silence, so i try that when i have the silence when im with one of the guys and it just comes across as me trying to hard to start convo.

i know theres a time for silence and i let thoes happen but theres is a time for conversation also, anybody have advice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This a new one - a DJ asking for advice on how to talk to guys? OOOOKKKAAY! And they are all your partners in a dance crew?? OOOOKKKAAY!

I don't know how to answer - sorry:( Are you intimidated by other men?
 
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