"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To kiss or not to kiss on the first date? (LTR)

djthiago1

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What is the concensus on SS regarding first date kisses?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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djthiago1

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The girl i'm going out with never saw me in person, friend of mine gave me her number.
 

salinechow

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Chemistry? KIss!
No chemistry? Try and Kiss her anyway and make some chemistry!

Its not a marrige proposal. Kiss her and lead her to your bliss. Man up!
 

MOTU

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Yea I think a good end of date kiss close is an invaluable skill. You can really get their hamster running like that....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LMFAO

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There's no hard and fast rule about this, but you need to stand out from the AFC crowd, especially if it's online dating or a really hot babe. Either don't kiss and get her mind running over a next date if the chemistry isn't necessarily there yet for a kiss close or kiss her and grab her ass (possibly even finger). If you can pull her home you can also wait to kiss her there. The RSD guys usually either kiss in the bar and then pull her home or pull her home and then kiss, at more rare times they may not even kiss at all but leave the possibility for a next date. Escalate as needed and see how far it goes.
 
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