“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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To kiss or not to kiss on the first date? (LTR)

djthiago1

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What is the concensus on SS regarding first date kisses?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

djthiago1

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The girl i'm going out with never saw me in person, friend of mine gave me her number.
 

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Chemistry? KIss!
No chemistry? Try and Kiss her anyway and make some chemistry!

Its not a marrige proposal. Kiss her and lead her to your bliss. Man up!
 

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Yea I think a good end of date kiss close is an invaluable skill. You can really get their hamster running like that....
 

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There's no hard and fast rule about this, but you need to stand out from the AFC crowd, especially if it's online dating or a really hot babe. Either don't kiss and get her mind running over a next date if the chemistry isn't necessarily there yet for a kiss close or kiss her and grab her ass (possibly even finger). If you can pull her home you can also wait to kiss her there. The RSD guys usually either kiss in the bar and then pull her home or pull her home and then kiss, at more rare times they may not even kiss at all but leave the possibility for a next date. Escalate as needed and see how far it goes.
 
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