"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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In middle school I played a lot of sports and I was good at them too, but I became discouraged in high school by some ******* coach and decided not to play. A lot of people at my school play sports and all they talk about is practice.... Does it get any better? should I give in and join a sports team even though I really don't want to? Will people eventually chill out about their sports and not talk about it 24/7 or will the amount of people playing sports diminish?

I'll be a sophomore at the start of the year and want to know if becoming an DJ is much harder if you're not on a sports team. I don't really have a lot of good friends at the high school I'm going to due to transferring to it from outside the school's district.

A little info about my school- middle class, middle of central texas, and my class of 2011 has around 800 students.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Football + track


I'm 6'2 and weigh 170lbs

I used to be really fat, so that is why I never got into basketball.
 
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HS football is always respected (worshipped) in Texas. It can't hurt your reputation to play.

Sports are good because they keep you busy and give you goals. Girls want guys who have a life and things that are important to them. Obviously, never do a sport it unless you actually ENJOY it.
 
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I think it's too late to join football, and I only enjoyed the games. Our school's football team sucks anyways the player who scored the most points was the kicker.


Does anyone here know if it's easy to learn lacrosse? There is a lacrosse team at my school, but I don't know if they teach new players. They say they welcome all players, but prefer players who have played before.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I play lacrosse and I recommend it. It's a lot of fun.

It takes a little time to learn, but if you practice at home a little, you'll be fine. Every player is new at some point. The equipment CAN be expensive, but if you know where to look, it's really not that bad.
 
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