"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In middle school I played a lot of sports and I was good at them too, but I became discouraged in high school by some ******* coach and decided not to play. A lot of people at my school play sports and all they talk about is practice.... Does it get any better? should I give in and join a sports team even though I really don't want to? Will people eventually chill out about their sports and not talk about it 24/7 or will the amount of people playing sports diminish?

I'll be a sophomore at the start of the year and want to know if becoming an DJ is much harder if you're not on a sports team. I don't really have a lot of good friends at the high school I'm going to due to transferring to it from outside the school's district.

A little info about my school- middle class, middle of central texas, and my class of 2011 has around 800 students.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Football + track


I'm 6'2 and weigh 170lbs

I used to be really fat, so that is why I never got into basketball.
 
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HS football is always respected (worshipped) in Texas. It can't hurt your reputation to play.

Sports are good because they keep you busy and give you goals. Girls want guys who have a life and things that are important to them. Obviously, never do a sport it unless you actually ENJOY it.
 
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I think it's too late to join football, and I only enjoyed the games. Our school's football team sucks anyways the player who scored the most points was the kicker.


Does anyone here know if it's easy to learn lacrosse? There is a lacrosse team at my school, but I don't know if they teach new players. They say they welcome all players, but prefer players who have played before.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I play lacrosse and I recommend it. It's a lot of fun.

It takes a little time to learn, but if you practice at home a little, you'll be fine. Every player is new at some point. The equipment CAN be expensive, but if you know where to look, it's really not that bad.
 
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