"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To IG or not ?

kookdekoo

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Hi,
I have been showing interest and maintaining eye contact with a chick in my gym. Day before yesterday, she definitely showed heavy IOI..came out of nowhere while I was working out and started a conversation. Gave needless information like where she worked and why she wasn't very regular in the gym etc...my question is , I am travelling and won't be going to the gym for a week now. I have found her on IG. Should I message her to get the ball rolling OR , wait a week and do it in person ?? What's the done thing nowadays ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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Do you have a reason to be on Instagram outside of cruising for babes? No? Scarcity mindset.

If you have a reason or passion, that's different but if you have 1 follow and no content it's probably a bad idea

What's even more hilarious is you aren't even leveraging your status as a traveler and are instead choosing local, get your head in the game my guy
 

Bingo-Player

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I don't find instagram very effective when trying to get chicks

Theres just too much for her to form a negative opinion from , every single thing you post will get over analysed, screen shotted and usually sent to her female chats

9/10 none of this will go in your favour unless you have a lot of extremely female friendly content and no that doesnt mean pics of you in the gym

Its better to get the number and retain the mystery until you have either slept with her or formed a bond where you can do no wrong
 
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