"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To IG or not ?

kookdekoo

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Hi,
I have been showing interest and maintaining eye contact with a chick in my gym. Day before yesterday, she definitely showed heavy IOI..came out of nowhere while I was working out and started a conversation. Gave needless information like where she worked and why she wasn't very regular in the gym etc...my question is , I am travelling and won't be going to the gym for a week now. I have found her on IG. Should I message her to get the ball rolling OR , wait a week and do it in person ?? What's the done thing nowadays ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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Do you have a reason to be on Instagram outside of cruising for babes? No? Scarcity mindset.

If you have a reason or passion, that's different but if you have 1 follow and no content it's probably a bad idea

What's even more hilarious is you aren't even leveraging your status as a traveler and are instead choosing local, get your head in the game my guy
 

Bingo-Player

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I don't find instagram very effective when trying to get chicks

Theres just too much for her to form a negative opinion from , every single thing you post will get over analysed, screen shotted and usually sent to her female chats

9/10 none of this will go in your favour unless you have a lot of extremely female friendly content and no that doesnt mean pics of you in the gym

Its better to get the number and retain the mystery until you have either slept with her or formed a bond where you can do no wrong
 
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