"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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To gift or not to gift...

ozzfest

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...that is the questions.

Its a real simple question and I don't wanna come off as some chump.

I had a female friend ..and I say HAD cuz we used to be close and we've veered apart this year. We would come close to hooking up and then it wouldn't happen.

Anyway, should I get her anything for Xmas. We had exchanged gifts in previous years...nothing fancy. I feel like if I don't get her something and she gets me something I will look bad. However, I will look like a wuss if I get her something and she doesn't get me anything. I bought a card just in case. Frankly, I am thinking I'm not getting her anything and leaving it at that.

I know the majority on this board will say "F" her..don't be a sap..don't get the Bi&*h anything. Its not really about being Don Juan or anything. Its just the Christmas thing to do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mental

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ozzfest said:
...that is the questions.

Its a real simple question and I don't wanna come off as some chump.

I had a female friend ..and I say HAD cuz we used to be close and we've veered apart this year. We would come close to hooking up and then it wouldn't happen.

Anyway, should I get her anything for Xmas. We had exchanged gifts in previous years...nothing fancy. I feel like if I don't get her something and she gets me something I will look bad. However, I will look like a wuss if I get her something and she doesn't get me anything. I bought a card just in case. Frankly, I am thinking I'm not getting her anything and leaving it at that.

I know the majority on this board will say "F" her..don't be a sap..don't get the Bi&*h anything. Its not really about being Don Juan or anything. Its just the Christmas thing to do.

Backup gifts.

I keep backup cards in my glove compartment, so if I forget anything, or for "emergencies" I'll use them.

But then again, I've got a horrible memory and these are for friends, which is a little different from your situation, but...

Might be an idea. Do something small, something a lot of your friends might like. Keep it on you, and if and when something gets brought up, you act like you remembered.
 

ready123

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Give her a gift if it's in your nature to be giving

Don't give her a gift if you're expecting her to f*ck you because of it

And don't refuse to give her a gift just because dudes you don't know on this board think it makes you less alpha. they're retarded
 
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