"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To gift or not to gift...

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...that is the questions.

Its a real simple question and I don't wanna come off as some chump.

I had a female friend ..and I say HAD cuz we used to be close and we've veered apart this year. We would come close to hooking up and then it wouldn't happen.

Anyway, should I get her anything for Xmas. We had exchanged gifts in previous years...nothing fancy. I feel like if I don't get her something and she gets me something I will look bad. However, I will look like a wuss if I get her something and she doesn't get me anything. I bought a card just in case. Frankly, I am thinking I'm not getting her anything and leaving it at that.

I know the majority on this board will say "F" her..don't be a sap..don't get the Bi&*h anything. Its not really about being Don Juan or anything. Its just the Christmas thing to do.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ozzfest said:
...that is the questions.

Its a real simple question and I don't wanna come off as some chump.

I had a female friend ..and I say HAD cuz we used to be close and we've veered apart this year. We would come close to hooking up and then it wouldn't happen.

Anyway, should I get her anything for Xmas. We had exchanged gifts in previous years...nothing fancy. I feel like if I don't get her something and she gets me something I will look bad. However, I will look like a wuss if I get her something and she doesn't get me anything. I bought a card just in case. Frankly, I am thinking I'm not getting her anything and leaving it at that.

I know the majority on this board will say "F" her..don't be a sap..don't get the Bi&*h anything. Its not really about being Don Juan or anything. Its just the Christmas thing to do.
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Backup gifts.

I keep backup cards in my glove compartment, so if I forget anything, or for "emergencies" I'll use them.

But then again, I've got a horrible memory and these are for friends, which is a little different from your situation, but...

Might be an idea. Do something small, something a lot of your friends might like. Keep it on you, and if and when something gets brought up, you act like you remembered.
 
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Give her a gift if it's in your nature to be giving

Don't give her a gift if you're expecting her to f*ck you because of it

And don't refuse to give her a gift just because dudes you don't know on this board think it makes you less alpha. they're retarded
 
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