"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To gift or not to gift...

ozzfest

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...that is the questions.

Its a real simple question and I don't wanna come off as some chump.

I had a female friend ..and I say HAD cuz we used to be close and we've veered apart this year. We would come close to hooking up and then it wouldn't happen.

Anyway, should I get her anything for Xmas. We had exchanged gifts in previous years...nothing fancy. I feel like if I don't get her something and she gets me something I will look bad. However, I will look like a wuss if I get her something and she doesn't get me anything. I bought a card just in case. Frankly, I am thinking I'm not getting her anything and leaving it at that.

I know the majority on this board will say "F" her..don't be a sap..don't get the Bi&*h anything. Its not really about being Don Juan or anything. Its just the Christmas thing to do.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Mental

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ozzfest said:
...that is the questions.

Its a real simple question and I don't wanna come off as some chump.

I had a female friend ..and I say HAD cuz we used to be close and we've veered apart this year. We would come close to hooking up and then it wouldn't happen.

Anyway, should I get her anything for Xmas. We had exchanged gifts in previous years...nothing fancy. I feel like if I don't get her something and she gets me something I will look bad. However, I will look like a wuss if I get her something and she doesn't get me anything. I bought a card just in case. Frankly, I am thinking I'm not getting her anything and leaving it at that.

I know the majority on this board will say "F" her..don't be a sap..don't get the Bi&*h anything. Its not really about being Don Juan or anything. Its just the Christmas thing to do.

Backup gifts.

I keep backup cards in my glove compartment, so if I forget anything, or for "emergencies" I'll use them.

But then again, I've got a horrible memory and these are for friends, which is a little different from your situation, but...

Might be an idea. Do something small, something a lot of your friends might like. Keep it on you, and if and when something gets brought up, you act like you remembered.
 

ready123

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Give her a gift if it's in your nature to be giving

Don't give her a gift if you're expecting her to f*ck you because of it

And don't refuse to give her a gift just because dudes you don't know on this board think it makes you less alpha. they're retarded
 
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