"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is there such thing as an A-B-C-D point road map to it?

Or can you just go from B to D..

Example:
1. Meaning, can you have rapport with someone and not have kino and still end up having sex?

2. Can you have KINO without rapport and still end up having sex?

OR do you always have to have kino + rapport to lead to sex?

Share your thoughts please.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's futile. Just masturbate.
 

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im serious guys, im still a virgin you know.. sighs..
It's futile. Keep on masturbating.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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verysuave said:
Is there such thing as an A-B-C-D point road map to it?

Or can you just go from B to D..

Example:
1. Meaning, can you have rapport with someone and not have kino and still end up having sex?

2. Can you have KINO without rapport and still end up having sex?

OR do you always have to have kino + rapport to lead to sex?

Share your thoughts please.
If your are serious--
1-yes but adding kino will increase odds
2.hard to do...you must have that rapport thing going on
3. best bet

good luck in losing your cherry soon. Start with the DJ Bootcamp.
 

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Sigh.

Anything is possible. Get the tools and use them if you want better chances.

Bible and Bootcamp it.
 

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Ok, if you are only 14 year old or something like that, then forget about what I'm going to say, you are still young, you will learn. Otherwise keep on reading...

It's not about being a virgin, or being inexperienced with girls or whatever, it's about social intelligence/awareness and common sense.

If I ask you

- "can you become friends with some one without having actually spent a lot of time with him/her?"

- "can you tell about people's character after only spending some time with them?"

- "can you always fart and not make any noise?"

- etc

Can you give me a A B C D style clearcut answer to all these questions?


There's no "manual" for anything involving human interactions. And you sir are a retard.:yes: :crackup:

Francisco d'Anconia said:
It's futile. Keep on masturbating.
Good call!:yes:
 

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Jesus man, just let the mood flow. You cant force kino or rapport, or sex, just let yourself do what you want to do, and that'll get you a long way. Dont be scared man
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I never used to kino and i got laid. So no

I've always had a thing about personal space until i read about kino here. Now i don't give a damn and invade space all the time.
 

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Le Parisien said:
There's no "manual" for anything involving human interactions.
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It's becoming a bit frustrating to keep seeing guys in the forum completely unaware of their repetitive mistakes looking for cheat sheets, pick up lines, step by step instructions or some other magic pill to get them laid or to understand why women treat them so badly. If such a thing were available there wouldn't be a need for sites like this because the solution would be readily apparent and their reason for coming to the site would be only because they were too dim to understand.
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ok. Thanks. Even though you guys flamed me. Sometimes the most simplest, even dumbest question is what matters you know.

***MY SITUATION***
Well, the reason why i brought it up is because this chick at told told me that "i'm cute" but she NEVER Kinoed me even though I kino her. It's like wtf man, this just gets more confusing.

From my understanding, if a chick likes you,
she will most likely do one of the things:

1. Tell to your face that you are cute (some chicks do and some dont)
2. KINO YOU! (i think 100% will do it)

so, shouldnt she have kinoed me well if she was attacted to me? Or are some women "AFRAID" to kino men?
 

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verysuave said:
ok. Thanks. Even though you guys flamed me. Sometimes the most simplest, even dumbest question is what matters you know.

***MY SITUATION***
Well, the reason why i brought it up is because this chick at told told me that "i'm cute" but she NEVER Kinoed me even though I kino her. It's like wtf man, this just gets more confusing.

From my understanding, if a chick likes you,
she will most likely do one of the things:

1. Tell to your face that you are cute (some chicks do and some dont)
2. KINO YOU! (i think 100% will do it)

so, shouldnt she have kinoed me well if she was attacted to me? Or are some women "AFRAID" to kino men?
If she said "you are cute" and she was not just being nice, then she's definitely attracted to a certain extent.

If she didn't kino you, there can be so many reasons:

- She's the shy type.

- She's attracted, but not a lot.

- There were other people around.

- She already has a boyfriend or maybe a better "prospect" in a more advanced stage of relationship, so kinoing you which in her head would give you the wrong ideas. And she was right about that...:yes:

- Or maybe she just "forgot"...:D

- And so many others...

Don't overanalyze things. When you have spent more time with her, I'm sure her actions will reveal more about her true intentions.
 

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She just said your cute, you got a LONG way till you get any sex man.

I get your question though, grabbing your or touching you doesn' really mean sh!t.

Who you are matters most man. Does she want your d!ck in her, from this post I can tell you the answer is "nah."

Of course you can just get her drunk or go for a slvt like real way of the DJ/PUA. (You know thats what ya do.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bvbidd said:
She just said your cute, you got a LONG way till you get any sex man.

I get your question though, grabbing your or touching you doesn' really mean sh!t... (You know thats what ya do.)
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