"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is there such thing as an A-B-C-D point road map to it?

Or can you just go from B to D..

Example:
1. Meaning, can you have rapport with someone and not have kino and still end up having sex?

2. Can you have KINO without rapport and still end up having sex?

OR do you always have to have kino + rapport to lead to sex?

Share your thoughts please.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's futile. Just masturbate.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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verysuave said:
im serious guys, im still a virgin you know.. sighs..
It's futile. Keep on masturbating.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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verysuave said:
Is there such thing as an A-B-C-D point road map to it?

Or can you just go from B to D..

Example:
1. Meaning, can you have rapport with someone and not have kino and still end up having sex?

2. Can you have KINO without rapport and still end up having sex?

OR do you always have to have kino + rapport to lead to sex?

Share your thoughts please.
If your are serious--
1-yes but adding kino will increase odds
2.hard to do...you must have that rapport thing going on
3. best bet

good luck in losing your cherry soon. Start with the DJ Bootcamp.
 

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Sigh.

Anything is possible. Get the tools and use them if you want better chances.

Bible and Bootcamp it.
 

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Ok, if you are only 14 year old or something like that, then forget about what I'm going to say, you are still young, you will learn. Otherwise keep on reading...

It's not about being a virgin, or being inexperienced with girls or whatever, it's about social intelligence/awareness and common sense.

If I ask you

- "can you become friends with some one without having actually spent a lot of time with him/her?"

- "can you tell about people's character after only spending some time with them?"

- "can you always fart and not make any noise?"

- etc

Can you give me a A B C D style clearcut answer to all these questions?


There's no "manual" for anything involving human interactions. And you sir are a retard.:yes: :crackup:

Francisco d'Anconia said:
It's futile. Keep on masturbating.
Good call!:yes:
 

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Jesus man, just let the mood flow. You cant force kino or rapport, or sex, just let yourself do what you want to do, and that'll get you a long way. Dont be scared man
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I never used to kino and i got laid. So no

I've always had a thing about personal space until i read about kino here. Now i don't give a damn and invade space all the time.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Le Parisien said:
There's no "manual" for anything involving human interactions.
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It's becoming a bit frustrating to keep seeing guys in the forum completely unaware of their repetitive mistakes looking for cheat sheets, pick up lines, step by step instructions or some other magic pill to get them laid or to understand why women treat them so badly. If such a thing were available there wouldn't be a need for sites like this because the solution would be readily apparent and their reason for coming to the site would be only because they were too dim to understand.
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ok. Thanks. Even though you guys flamed me. Sometimes the most simplest, even dumbest question is what matters you know.

***MY SITUATION***
Well, the reason why i brought it up is because this chick at told told me that "i'm cute" but she NEVER Kinoed me even though I kino her. It's like wtf man, this just gets more confusing.

From my understanding, if a chick likes you,
she will most likely do one of the things:

1. Tell to your face that you are cute (some chicks do and some dont)
2. KINO YOU! (i think 100% will do it)

so, shouldnt she have kinoed me well if she was attacted to me? Or are some women "AFRAID" to kino men?
 

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verysuave said:
ok. Thanks. Even though you guys flamed me. Sometimes the most simplest, even dumbest question is what matters you know.

***MY SITUATION***
Well, the reason why i brought it up is because this chick at told told me that "i'm cute" but she NEVER Kinoed me even though I kino her. It's like wtf man, this just gets more confusing.

From my understanding, if a chick likes you,
she will most likely do one of the things:

1. Tell to your face that you are cute (some chicks do and some dont)
2. KINO YOU! (i think 100% will do it)

so, shouldnt she have kinoed me well if she was attacted to me? Or are some women "AFRAID" to kino men?
If she said "you are cute" and she was not just being nice, then she's definitely attracted to a certain extent.

If she didn't kino you, there can be so many reasons:

- She's the shy type.

- She's attracted, but not a lot.

- There were other people around.

- She already has a boyfriend or maybe a better "prospect" in a more advanced stage of relationship, so kinoing you which in her head would give you the wrong ideas. And she was right about that...:yes:

- Or maybe she just "forgot"...:D

- And so many others...

Don't overanalyze things. When you have spent more time with her, I'm sure her actions will reveal more about her true intentions.
 

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She just said your cute, you got a LONG way till you get any sex man.

I get your question though, grabbing your or touching you doesn' really mean sh!t.

Who you are matters most man. Does she want your d!ck in her, from this post I can tell you the answer is "nah."

Of course you can just get her drunk or go for a slvt like real way of the DJ/PUA. (You know thats what ya do.)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bvbidd said:
She just said your cute, you got a LONG way till you get any sex man.

I get your question though, grabbing your or touching you doesn' really mean sh!t... (You know thats what ya do.)
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