"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is there such thing as an A-B-C-D point road map to it?

Or can you just go from B to D..

Example:
1. Meaning, can you have rapport with someone and not have kino and still end up having sex?

2. Can you have KINO without rapport and still end up having sex?

OR do you always have to have kino + rapport to lead to sex?

Share your thoughts please.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's futile. Just masturbate.
 

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verysuave said:
im serious guys, im still a virgin you know.. sighs..
It's futile. Keep on masturbating.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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verysuave said:
Is there such thing as an A-B-C-D point road map to it?

Or can you just go from B to D..

Example:
1. Meaning, can you have rapport with someone and not have kino and still end up having sex?

2. Can you have KINO without rapport and still end up having sex?

OR do you always have to have kino + rapport to lead to sex?

Share your thoughts please.
If your are serious--
1-yes but adding kino will increase odds
2.hard to do...you must have that rapport thing going on
3. best bet

good luck in losing your cherry soon. Start with the DJ Bootcamp.
 

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Sigh.

Anything is possible. Get the tools and use them if you want better chances.

Bible and Bootcamp it.
 

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Ok, if you are only 14 year old or something like that, then forget about what I'm going to say, you are still young, you will learn. Otherwise keep on reading...

It's not about being a virgin, or being inexperienced with girls or whatever, it's about social intelligence/awareness and common sense.

If I ask you

- "can you become friends with some one without having actually spent a lot of time with him/her?"

- "can you tell about people's character after only spending some time with them?"

- "can you always fart and not make any noise?"

- etc

Can you give me a A B C D style clearcut answer to all these questions?


There's no "manual" for anything involving human interactions. And you sir are a retard.:yes: :crackup:

Francisco d'Anconia said:
It's futile. Keep on masturbating.
Good call!:yes:
 

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Jesus man, just let the mood flow. You cant force kino or rapport, or sex, just let yourself do what you want to do, and that'll get you a long way. Dont be scared man
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I never used to kino and i got laid. So no

I've always had a thing about personal space until i read about kino here. Now i don't give a damn and invade space all the time.
 

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Le Parisien said:
There's no "manual" for anything involving human interactions.
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It's becoming a bit frustrating to keep seeing guys in the forum completely unaware of their repetitive mistakes looking for cheat sheets, pick up lines, step by step instructions or some other magic pill to get them laid or to understand why women treat them so badly. If such a thing were available there wouldn't be a need for sites like this because the solution would be readily apparent and their reason for coming to the site would be only because they were too dim to understand.
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ok. Thanks. Even though you guys flamed me. Sometimes the most simplest, even dumbest question is what matters you know.

***MY SITUATION***
Well, the reason why i brought it up is because this chick at told told me that "i'm cute" but she NEVER Kinoed me even though I kino her. It's like wtf man, this just gets more confusing.

From my understanding, if a chick likes you,
she will most likely do one of the things:

1. Tell to your face that you are cute (some chicks do and some dont)
2. KINO YOU! (i think 100% will do it)

so, shouldnt she have kinoed me well if she was attacted to me? Or are some women "AFRAID" to kino men?
 

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verysuave said:
ok. Thanks. Even though you guys flamed me. Sometimes the most simplest, even dumbest question is what matters you know.

***MY SITUATION***
Well, the reason why i brought it up is because this chick at told told me that "i'm cute" but she NEVER Kinoed me even though I kino her. It's like wtf man, this just gets more confusing.

From my understanding, if a chick likes you,
she will most likely do one of the things:

1. Tell to your face that you are cute (some chicks do and some dont)
2. KINO YOU! (i think 100% will do it)

so, shouldnt she have kinoed me well if she was attacted to me? Or are some women "AFRAID" to kino men?
If she said "you are cute" and she was not just being nice, then she's definitely attracted to a certain extent.

If she didn't kino you, there can be so many reasons:

- She's the shy type.

- She's attracted, but not a lot.

- There were other people around.

- She already has a boyfriend or maybe a better "prospect" in a more advanced stage of relationship, so kinoing you which in her head would give you the wrong ideas. And she was right about that...:yes:

- Or maybe she just "forgot"...:D

- And so many others...

Don't overanalyze things. When you have spent more time with her, I'm sure her actions will reveal more about her true intentions.
 

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She just said your cute, you got a LONG way till you get any sex man.

I get your question though, grabbing your or touching you doesn' really mean sh!t.

Who you are matters most man. Does she want your d!ck in her, from this post I can tell you the answer is "nah."

Of course you can just get her drunk or go for a slvt like real way of the DJ/PUA. (You know thats what ya do.)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bvbidd said:
She just said your cute, you got a LONG way till you get any sex man.

I get your question though, grabbing your or touching you doesn' really mean sh!t... (You know thats what ya do.)
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