"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To flirt or not to flirt?

broadsword303

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Alright, I've got a need for some help. There is an exchange student in my school who I like, but I'm not sure if she reciprocates.
I'll list the signs I've seen:
-She likes to talk to me.
-We like to joke together.
-She comes to me for help on her homework.
-She playfully takes my hat and wears it, or will knock it off my head(playfully, of course).
-In my classes with her, she will come straight to me and talk.
-When asked what I was thinking of, I replied I was just thinking. She then said, "Oh? Something naughty about me?" And began to giggle.
-I compliment her quite a bit, and she eats it up and asks for more.
-She likes to play 'thumb wrestling' with me.
-She never seems angry or irritated with me.
-She notices that I like to be around her.

SO! I know that some of you will have drawn conclusion already, but I wanted some professional opinion before I made a move.
Should I be straight up, or ask for her number and take things from there.
BTW, she's Danish, so if anyone knows any Danish phrases to help, please add them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kidkoala

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Look at what you wrote, and pretend somebody else wrote it and then you'll see how obvious it is,.
 

immrtlwun

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What do you have to lose by not going for it. If she turns you down, find other girls. If she does go with it, you have so much more that you could gain.
 

broadsword303

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You're right. Can someone slap me in the face, please?

I'm going to get a drink. Then some glasses. Then her number.

Want anything while I'm out?
 

NoNickname

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Tell me, in English, some of the phrases you want to know, and I'll try and translate them into Danish. I'm sure I could give you a tiny guide on how to pronounce the phrases as well;) You won't understand it just from reading it:)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smooth Player 056

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Dude....these are all IOI's.....I phase shift after every 3......you should be fvcking her by now.

Dont procrastinate any longer.

Smooth
 

broadsword303

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I know, I know. I pulled some DJ stuff on her at a 'school function.'

Can you say puddy? I didn't think it would be that easy.

As for phrases in Danish, how about 'You are very attractive?'
Or, 'Your hair looks nice.'

You know, a compliment.
 

bambino

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I don't know any Danish phrases but foreign girls are more open and happy than the american girl. Foreign chicks are fun to be with and different (which is good) from the girls here. You just feel more comfortable with them, especially if they are hot.

You should ask her out man, the signs are definately there. Good luck! :cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NoNickname

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Du er nok så nydelig = You're very attractive.
I don't know if you speak Danish, but doesn't "Du er nok så nydelig" mean "you're tolerably attractive"? I would rather use "Du er meget nydelig".
"Your hair looks beatufiul" is something like "Dit hår er skønt".
 
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