"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To flirt or not to flirt?

broadsword303

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Alright, I've got a need for some help. There is an exchange student in my school who I like, but I'm not sure if she reciprocates.
I'll list the signs I've seen:
-She likes to talk to me.
-We like to joke together.
-She comes to me for help on her homework.
-She playfully takes my hat and wears it, or will knock it off my head(playfully, of course).
-In my classes with her, she will come straight to me and talk.
-When asked what I was thinking of, I replied I was just thinking. She then said, "Oh? Something naughty about me?" And began to giggle.
-I compliment her quite a bit, and she eats it up and asks for more.
-She likes to play 'thumb wrestling' with me.
-She never seems angry or irritated with me.
-She notices that I like to be around her.

SO! I know that some of you will have drawn conclusion already, but I wanted some professional opinion before I made a move.
Should I be straight up, or ask for her number and take things from there.
BTW, she's Danish, so if anyone knows any Danish phrases to help, please add them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kidkoala

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Look at what you wrote, and pretend somebody else wrote it and then you'll see how obvious it is,.
 

immrtlwun

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What do you have to lose by not going for it. If she turns you down, find other girls. If she does go with it, you have so much more that you could gain.
 

broadsword303

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You're right. Can someone slap me in the face, please?

I'm going to get a drink. Then some glasses. Then her number.

Want anything while I'm out?
 

NoNickname

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Tell me, in English, some of the phrases you want to know, and I'll try and translate them into Danish. I'm sure I could give you a tiny guide on how to pronounce the phrases as well;) You won't understand it just from reading it:)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Smooth Player 056

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Dude....these are all IOI's.....I phase shift after every 3......you should be fvcking her by now.

Dont procrastinate any longer.

Smooth
 

broadsword303

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I know, I know. I pulled some DJ stuff on her at a 'school function.'

Can you say puddy? I didn't think it would be that easy.

As for phrases in Danish, how about 'You are very attractive?'
Or, 'Your hair looks nice.'

You know, a compliment.
 

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I don't know any Danish phrases but foreign girls are more open and happy than the american girl. Foreign chicks are fun to be with and different (which is good) from the girls here. You just feel more comfortable with them, especially if they are hot.

You should ask her out man, the signs are definately there. Good luck! :cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NoNickname

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Du er nok så nydelig = You're very attractive.
I don't know if you speak Danish, but doesn't "Du er nok så nydelig" mean "you're tolerably attractive"? I would rather use "Du er meget nydelig".
"Your hair looks beatufiul" is something like "Dit hår er skønt".
 
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