"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To flirt or not to flirt?

broadsword303

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Alright, I've got a need for some help. There is an exchange student in my school who I like, but I'm not sure if she reciprocates.
I'll list the signs I've seen:
-She likes to talk to me.
-We like to joke together.
-She comes to me for help on her homework.
-She playfully takes my hat and wears it, or will knock it off my head(playfully, of course).
-In my classes with her, she will come straight to me and talk.
-When asked what I was thinking of, I replied I was just thinking. She then said, "Oh? Something naughty about me?" And began to giggle.
-I compliment her quite a bit, and she eats it up and asks for more.
-She likes to play 'thumb wrestling' with me.
-She never seems angry or irritated with me.
-She notices that I like to be around her.

SO! I know that some of you will have drawn conclusion already, but I wanted some professional opinion before I made a move.
Should I be straight up, or ask for her number and take things from there.
BTW, she's Danish, so if anyone knows any Danish phrases to help, please add them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kidkoala

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Look at what you wrote, and pretend somebody else wrote it and then you'll see how obvious it is,.
 

immrtlwun

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What do you have to lose by not going for it. If she turns you down, find other girls. If she does go with it, you have so much more that you could gain.
 

broadsword303

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You're right. Can someone slap me in the face, please?

I'm going to get a drink. Then some glasses. Then her number.

Want anything while I'm out?
 

NoNickname

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Tell me, in English, some of the phrases you want to know, and I'll try and translate them into Danish. I'm sure I could give you a tiny guide on how to pronounce the phrases as well;) You won't understand it just from reading it:)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Smooth Player 056

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Dude....these are all IOI's.....I phase shift after every 3......you should be fvcking her by now.

Dont procrastinate any longer.

Smooth
 

broadsword303

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I know, I know. I pulled some DJ stuff on her at a 'school function.'

Can you say puddy? I didn't think it would be that easy.

As for phrases in Danish, how about 'You are very attractive?'
Or, 'Your hair looks nice.'

You know, a compliment.
 

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I don't know any Danish phrases but foreign girls are more open and happy than the american girl. Foreign chicks are fun to be with and different (which is good) from the girls here. You just feel more comfortable with them, especially if they are hot.

You should ask her out man, the signs are definately there. Good luck! :cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NoNickname

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Du er nok så nydelig = You're very attractive.
I don't know if you speak Danish, but doesn't "Du er nok så nydelig" mean "you're tolerably attractive"? I would rather use "Du er meget nydelig".
"Your hair looks beatufiul" is something like "Dit hår er skønt".
 
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