"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
To Facebook or not?
- Thread starter Angelo
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
bilboteabaggins
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Diaforetikos
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I deleted my Facebook, and am now doing much better female wise. I am dating someone at the moment, though, so I don't socialize with other women as much ad I use to.
I'm not knocking the use of Facebook. I just felt for me, that it wasn't necessary. I've been without it for 4 months and don't miss it a bit.
Learn to sarge without it first before you dive into adding Facebook to your arsenal.
francoatgrex
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If you decide to have it, use it with moderation. Revealing a little bit / a minimum of yourself can be fine, but airing your dirty laundry in public, revealing aspects of your private life that should really remain private, is very anti-seductive.Angelo said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
