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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To drink or not to drink?

aforabi

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Hi MDJs,

Please advise me.

I recently quit smoking, drinking, and any drugs of that matter. :rockon:

Recently, I have been spending 2-3 hours approaching strangers in the street, generating small conversations (2-10 minutes), and closing for the number. I have 8 numbers, and still 2 to go. I have been reading the The DJ Boot Camp ebook and following weekly exercise to knock my AFC habit once and for all. :yes:

My issue:

In some posts, MDJs advise guys to socialize and drink. Well, I am pretty much always in a good mood even without drinking. Plus, I do not like the morning "hangover" that comes from drinking. I also found my DJ skills becomes weak after drinking. The most important point is that I completely quit drinking alcohol after I was being advised not to (I was alcoholic before turning sober in the past 6 months and do NOT want to go back to my old ways.)

So how do I avoid drinking yet still enjoy the clubs, dancings, talking to people just like other people do? Please advice. Thanks in advance ...

AforAbi ... :up:
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Willard

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You can still go to bars and clubs just don't drink alcohol, have soda water or juice, lots of people do that.
 

aforabi

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Willard said:
You can still go to bars and clubs just don't drink alcohol, have soda water or juice, lots of people do that.
Thanks Willard for your advice.

I find that I am usually in an upbeat and better mood w/o alcohol. Nothing against alocohol but I feel I am great with sodas, juice, and Mocktails.

Thanks :up: for your support!
 
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