"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To drink or not to drink?

aforabi

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Hi MDJs,

Please advise me.

I recently quit smoking, drinking, and any drugs of that matter. :rockon:

Recently, I have been spending 2-3 hours approaching strangers in the street, generating small conversations (2-10 minutes), and closing for the number. I have 8 numbers, and still 2 to go. I have been reading the The DJ Boot Camp ebook and following weekly exercise to knock my AFC habit once and for all. :yes:

My issue:

In some posts, MDJs advise guys to socialize and drink. Well, I am pretty much always in a good mood even without drinking. Plus, I do not like the morning "hangover" that comes from drinking. I also found my DJ skills becomes weak after drinking. The most important point is that I completely quit drinking alcohol after I was being advised not to (I was alcoholic before turning sober in the past 6 months and do NOT want to go back to my old ways.)

So how do I avoid drinking yet still enjoy the clubs, dancings, talking to people just like other people do? Please advice. Thanks in advance ...

AforAbi ... :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Willard

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You can still go to bars and clubs just don't drink alcohol, have soda water or juice, lots of people do that.
 

aforabi

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Willard said:
You can still go to bars and clubs just don't drink alcohol, have soda water or juice, lots of people do that.
Thanks Willard for your advice.

I find that I am usually in an upbeat and better mood w/o alcohol. Nothing against alocohol but I feel I am great with sodas, juice, and Mocktails.

Thanks :up: for your support!
 
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